28 Common Wedding Questions from Their Guests Every Couple Should Be Prepared to Answer

Wedding planning is an exciting time for couples, but it can also be overwhelming, especially when it comes to answering guests' questions. To help you prepare, we've compiled a list of 40 common wedding questions that you should be prepared to answer.

Table of Contents

• Introduction
• Before the Wedding

• When should I RSVP?
• Can I bring a plus one?
• What should I wear to the wedding?
• Will there be transportation provided?
• Is there a gift registry?
• What time does the wedding start?
• Can I bring my kids to the wedding?
• What are the accommodation options?
• Will there be food and drinks served?

• During the Wedding

• What's the order of events?
• Where do I sit during the ceremony?
• Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
• What's the dress code for the wedding party?
• Where do I put my purse or coat?
• What if I have special dietary needs?
• Can I bring my own alcohol to the wedding?
• Are there any rules I need to follow during the wedding?
• What if I don't know anyone else at the wedding?
• What if I need to leave early?

• After the Wedding

• What's the best way to send a thank you note?
• Can I still give a gift if I didn't attend the wedding?
• What if I accidentally took home a centerpiece or other item?
• What do I do if I lost something at the wedding?
• When can I expect to see the wedding photos?
• Can I share the photos on social media?
• How can I get a copy of the wedding video?
• What's the protocol for post-wedding events?
• Can I still congratulate the couple if I missed the wedding?

• Conclusion
• FAQs

Introduction

Weddings are exciting events, and guests are often eager to participate in the festivities. However, many guests have questions about the wedding that need to be answered before the big day. As a couple, it's important to be prepared to answer these questions to ensure your guests have a good time at your wedding.

Before the Wedding

When should I RSVP?

RSVP stands for "répondez s'il vous plaît," which means "please respond" in French. As a guest, it's important to RSVP to the wedding invitation as soon as possible, usually within a few weeks. As a couple, it's important to set an RSVP deadline that gives you enough time to finalize your guest list and make other arrangements for your wedding.

Can I bring a plus one?

Many guests wonder if they can bring a plus one to the wedding. As a couple, it's important to decide if you're allowing plus ones and to communicate that clearly on the invitation. If you're not allowing plus ones, it's important to explain why.

What should I wear to the wedding?

The dress code for the wedding should be included on the invitation, but some guests may still have questions about what to wear. As a couple, it's helpful to provide examples of appropriate attire, such as "cocktail attire" or "black tie optional."

Will there be transportation provided?

If your wedding venue is in a remote location or difficult to access, guests may wonder if there will be transportation provided. As a couple, it's important to communicate transportation options and provide any necessary details, such as pick-up and drop-off times.

Is there a gift registry?

Many guests will want to give a gift to the couple to celebrate their wedding. As a couple, it's important to create a gift registry and include it on the invitation or wedding website. This will help guests know what types of gifts you would like and avoid duplicates.

What time does the wedding start?

Guests may have questions about the wedding start time, especially if they're traveling from out of town. As a couple, it's important to communicate the start time clearly and include any important details, such as whether there will be a cocktail hour or reception after the ceremony.

Can I bring my kids to the wedding?

Some guests may wonder if they can bring their children to the wedding. As a couple, it's important to decide if you're allowing children and communicate that clearly on the invitation or wedding website.

What are the accommodation options?

If you're having a destination wedding or many guests are traveling from out of town, it's important to provide accommodation options. As a couple, it's helpful to negotiate room blocks at local hotels and provide that information to your guests.

Will there be food and drinks served?

Guests will want to know if there will be food and drinks served at the wedding, especially if the wedding is during mealtime. As a couple, it's important to communicate what types of food and drinks will be available and whether guests need to make any special requests or accommodations.

During the Wedding

What's the order of events?

Guests will want to know what to expect during the wedding ceremony and reception. As a couple, it's important to communicate the order of events clearly and provide any important details, such as the timeline for speeches or dancing.

Where do I sit during the ceremony?

Guests may have questions about where to sit during the ceremony, especially if it's in a large venue or outdoors. As a couple, it's important to provide clear instructions on where to sit and assign ushers or other helpers to assist guests.

Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

Many guests will want to take pictures during the ceremony, but some couples may have rules about photography. As a couple, it's important to communicate your photography policy and provide any necessary details, such as where guests can take pictures or when photography is not allowed.

What's the dress code for the wedding party?

Guests may wonder what the wedding party will be wearing and whether they should coordinate their outfits. As a couple, it's important to communicate the wedding party's attire and any guidelines for guests.

Where do I put my purse or coat?

Guests may wonder where to put their belongings during the wedding, such as their coat or purse. As a couple, it's important to provide a designated area for guests to store their belongings and communicate that clearly.

What if I have special dietary needs?

Guests with special dietary needs, such as allergies or restrictions, will want to know what types of food will be available at the wedding. As a couple, it's important to provide options for guests with special dietary needs and communicate that clearly.

Can I bring my own alcohol to the wedding?

Some guests may want to bring their own alcohol to the wedding, but many venues have restrictions on outside alcohol. As a couple, it's important to communicate the venue's policy on outside alcohol and provide any necessary details.

Are there any rules I need to follow during the wedding?

Guests may wonder if there are any rules they need to follow during the wedding, such as dress code or behavior. As a couple, it's important to communicate any rules or guidelines and provide clear instructions on how to follow them.

What if I don't know anyone else at the wedding?

Some guests may feel uncomfortable if they don't know anyone else at the wedding. As a couple, it's important to provide opportunities for guests to mingle and get to know each other, such as seating charts or designated areas for socializing.

What if I need to leave early?

Guests may need to leave the wedding early for various reasons, such as work obligations or travel plans. As a couple, it's important to communicate any important details, such as the timing of the key events or when it's appropriate to leave.

After the Wedding

What's the best way to send a thank you note?

After the wedding, it's important to send thank you notes to your guests. As a couple, it's important to communicate the best way to send thank you notes, such as through email or traditional mail, and provide any necessary details, such as the timeline for sending them.

Can I still give a gift if I didn't attend the wedding?

Guests who were unable to attend the wedding may still want to give a gift to the couple. As a couple, it's important to communicate whether you're accepting gifts from guests who didn't attend the wedding and provide any necessary details, such as where to send the gift.

What if I accidentally took home a centerpiece or other item?

Guests may accidentally take home items from the wedding, such as a centerpiece or wedding favors. As a couple, it's important to communicate what items are meant to be taken home and what should be left behind.

What do I do if I lost something at the wedding?

If a guest lost something at the wedding, such as a coat or phone, they may have questions about how to retrieve it. As a couple, it's important to provide a designated lost and found area and communicate any necessary details, such as how to contact someone to retrieve lost items.

When can I expect to see the wedding photos?

Guests will be eager to see the wedding photos after the event. As a couple, it's important to communicate the timeline for when the photos will be available and how guests can access them.

Can I share the photos on social media?

Guests may want to share photos from the wedding on social media, but some couples may have restrictions or preferences about sharing. As a couple, it's important to communicate any guidelines for sharing photos and provide any necessary details.

How can I get a copy of the wedding video?

If the wedding was recorded, guests may want to get a copy of the video. As a couple, it's important to communicate how guests can access the video and any necessary details, such as the cost or timeline for receiving it.

What's the protocol for post-wedding events?

Some couples may host post-wedding events, such as a brunch or gift opening. As a couple, it's important to communicate the protocol for these events and provide any necessary details, such as the timing or location.

Can I still congratulate the couple if I missed the wedding?

Guests who were unable to attend the wedding may still want to congratulate the couple. As a couple, it's important to communicate how guests can reach out and provide any necessary details.

Conclusion

Wedding planning can be overwhelming, but by anticipating and answering common guest questions, you can help ensure that your guests have a great time at your wedding. Remember to communicate clearly and provide any necessary details to make the day as smooth and enjoyable as possible.

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